First things first … A big thank you for deciding to read my write up ! 🙂 See I am acting so kind here, in turn I expect you to be kind and read this fully and pour in your comments !
P.S : Note the word acting kind …so atleast I expect that :p 😉
I am neither a professional writer nor very efficient in choice of words ( which I think is key factor to attract audience ). But still, writing is not new to me so I decided to pen down my thoughts- but only this time in English for two major reasons:
- To some of my near and dear ones who sincerely wished I could convey my views in English so that they won’t have trouble in understanding-this one is for you 🙂 (Now all I really wish is that you people don’t jump into conclusion of what a blunder that was!).
- I wanted to test my English writing skills! (Is it ok to rephrase it as wanting to share my English proficiency with you?)
To be frank I am finding it hard to choose the words to frame my sentences (attracting audience concept). So my test result seems to be negative. Never mind I dint want to back off so I tried looking into thesaurus for I wanted some good replacement of certain words so that I could pretend that I do posses good writing skills ! But then … ting – sound of bulb in my mind.. What if that ended like Joey’s recommendation letter for Chandler and Monica in F.R.I.E.N.D.S series! ?! For those who haven’t watched that scene ,
so I dropped the idea of referring to thesaurus and decided to use simple terms and avoid complications.
Being simple and avoiding complications ..fine but what exactly do I wish to convey in this post? Clueless? So was I. I wished to talk about so many stuffs on earth that I was actually confused on what to choose and how to start. Finally I settled for easiest zone Love!
I suppose there is not a soul who wouldn’t want to taste it .Some are yet to find love ,some are lucky enough to get the ones they really love and live happily ever after ( happily ever after? that too after marriage? saving this for some other day ),while the others love the ones they are destined to. However the situation is, one cannot escape from loving or being loved. But
What are the odds of falling in love at first sight?! Does love at first sight really exists ?
A question to which I always get mixed replies, not only from outside but also within myself ! Sometimes when I hear stories of people falling for others at first sight I think ‘oh what a story! May be love at first sight do exists!’ but immediately the other personality in me pops out saying ‘hey dumbo ! Are you ready to believe whatever story that person is cooking up? If love at first sight happens how can there be only one love for one life?(is there really only one love for one life? A million dollar question! ) , what about the cases where friends for lifetime suddenly fall in love ?Moreover if love blossoms at first sight why are they breaking up soon after falling into love trap? If there is love at first sight then when does other emotions like crush infatuation and lust start? Don’t all these come at first sight? If the answer to this question is yes then how to classify these and come to conclusion that it is actually love and not the ones mentioned above?’
The split personality in me made my rusty mind to ponder over this while I was busy going to my office just to sign and get back. No wonder idle mind is devil’s workshop! The following lines belong to my mind voice.
‘ If love at first sight works perfect then why it is sometimes just one sided? Is it the bearable blunder of cupids working 24*7 or is it because they want to have some fun at work hours ?
And is it really LOVE at first sight or just the impression that is imprinted on our minds at first sight? Are those impressions deceived as love? What about the bonding that comes out of long term friendships ? Does a secret trigger of love blossom really exist ? ‘ My mind wanted to consult my heart which is when it noted that my heart in coordination with my eyes was busily surfing for my love (at first sight )! :p